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Privacy Policy

Last updated 2026-05-30. Effective immediately.

BondAI is a privacy-first app for couples and the partner who wants to understand. This page explains exactly what we collect, what we do not collect, and the controls you have. It matches our App Store privacy nutrition label one to one. If anything below ever disagrees with the App Store label, the App Store label is the binding source of truth.

The promise in one sentence

We never persist the raw text of your conversations, vents, or spoken answers. Everything that flows through the AI is processed in memory, returned to you, and then released.

What we collect, and why

We collect the minimum data needed to give you an account, charge the right plan, and keep the app stable. Every item below maps directly to a row on our App Store privacy nutrition label.

Apple categoryWhatLinked to youPurpose
Contact InfoEmail address (only if you create an account)YesApp functionality, account management
IdentifiersUser IDYesApp functionality
IdentifiersDevice ID (anonymous mode only)NoApp functionality
PurchasesPurchase history (subscription status from Apple)YesApp functionality, entitlement gating
DiagnosticsCrash dataNoApp functionality, stability monitoring
DiagnosticsPerformance dataNoApp functionality, performance monitoring
Other DataBond Memory patterns (behavioural signals only, no raw text)YesApp functionality, product personalization

We do not use any of the above to track you across other companies' apps or websites. We do not sell data.

What we do not collect

Items below are either never sent off your device, or are processed in real time and then released. They are not stored on our servers.

How analysis works

When you paste a chat into Bond Intelligence, or write or speak a vent in Inner Voice, the text is sent over an encrypted connection to the AI provider that generates the reflection. The text is held in memory only for the seconds the analysis takes. We do not write it to any database, log file, or analytics pipeline.

For voice mode, the audio is sent to the transcription service, converted to text, and the audio is discarded the moment the text is returned.

After the analysis returns, we keep the derived insights only: short patterns and metadata, capped at a few hundred characters per record, and never including direct quotes from your conversation. This is what powers Bond Memory, the per-user continuity layer that helps reflections stay coherent across sessions.

Third parties we share data with

We use the following service providers under contract. They process data on our behalf and may not use it for any other purpose.

ProviderRoleData sharedRetention
OpenAIReal-time analysis of pasted text and reflectionsConversation text or vent text, transmitted in memoryUp to 30 days for abuse monitoring, then deleted (OpenAI policy)
AnthropicReflection generation (Inner Voice)Vent text transmitted in memoryNo training on our data; retained per Anthropic enterprise terms
AppleSign In with Apple, In-App Purchases, crash and performance reportsAnonymous account identifier, purchase status, diagnostic dataPer Apple policy
GoogleSign In with Google (optional secondary auth)Email and Google account identifierPer Google policy
RevenueCatSubscription receipt validationAnonymous user identifier and Apple receiptPer RevenueCat enterprise terms

Your controls

Live audit counter

The Privacy Dashboard inside the app shows a live counter of raw conversation messages stored on our servers. It is wired to the database and reads zero, always. If it ever reads anything else, that is a bug and we want to hear about it.

Export your data

Settings → Privacy Dashboard → Export My Data returns a downloadable archive of your analyses, derived patterns, and account metadata.

Delete everything

Settings → Privacy Dashboard → Delete Everything removes your account and all your data, including Bond Memory patterns and the Pillow Talk adult consent flag. The deletion is immediate. There is no recovery window.

Per-user, not per-couple

If you are in a partnership, deleting your data removes only your side. Your partner's analyses and patterns are not affected. We never merge the two of you into one record.

Children

BondAI is rated 16+ on the App Store and is not designed for children under 13. We do not knowingly collect data from anyone under that age. If you believe a child's data was collected, contact us and we will delete it.

International transfers

Our servers and our AI providers operate primarily in the United States. If you use BondAI from the EU, the UK, or another region, your data may be processed in the US under standard contractual clauses.

GDPR and CCPA rights

EU and California residents have the right to access, correct, or delete personal data, and to object to or restrict processing. The in-app Export and Delete flows satisfy these rights for most cases. For anything else, email us.

Changes to this policy

If we make a material change to how we handle your data, we will update this page and the App Store nutrition label, and we will notify you in the app. Minor wording fixes will be reflected by an updated “last updated” date at the top of this page.

Contact

Privacy questions, deletion requests, and security reports go to privacy@getbondai.com. We aim to respond within 7 days for general questions and within 24 hours for security issues.